My Story
How Dating with ESQ Was Born
Hey girl—
I’m Brynn.
36. Arizona. Leo. Pet parent.
And for a long time, I played the role
—
Cool. Chill.
The woman who didn’t ask for much.
The one who gave more than she got, and never made a scene.
But inside?
I was exhausted.
Like when I say exhausted,
I mean mentally, emotionally, spiritually—in every possible way.
I hit my rock bottom.
I let people breadcrumb me.
Ghost me.
Gaslight me into thinking I was the problem—
Just for wanting clarity, consistency, or commitment.
And it wasn’t just men.
It was friends.
Family.
People I loved… who loved the quiet version of me.
I called it being loyal.
But looking back?
It was me abandoning myself—over and over again.
I didn’t want to be “too much.”
So I stayed too little.
Every time I felt hurt, I brushed it off.
Swallowed it.
Smiled through it.
And cried into my pillow at night.
Until one day…
my silence turned into a spark.
I had to step away from everything.
I took a nature break.
Literally went on a soul adventure.
And somewhere in that stillness… something clicked.
I didn’t explode...
I evolved.
That shift?
That’s when I created
Enough Said. Queen.
It wasn’t a brand—it was a release.
The first time I told the truth without apologizing.
No filters. No pretending.
Just real words from a woman finally waking up.
And when I started telling the truth?
Women started whispering,
“Wait… I’ve felt this too.”
That whisper turned into connection. And connection became momentum.
That’s when I realized:
I wasn’t alone.
And neither were they.
But awareness is just the beginning. Once you see the pattern, you can’t unsee it.
You either keep repeating it…
or finally choose to rewrite it.
And that’s when Dating with ESQ was born.
Because healing?
That’s just the warm-up.
Dating with ESQ is where you learn to move different.
Not harder. Not colder.
Wiser.
Clearer.
Aligned as hell.
It’s not about being “high value.”
It’s about being highly unavailable to anything that shrinks you.
This brand?
It’s not about aesthetic.
It’s not curated. It’s not filtered. It’s real women, making real shifts, in real time.
And if you’re wondering why I don’t show my face?
It’s because this isn’t about me.
It’s about you.
And what you’re about to do with everything you’ve survived.
So if you’re still reading this and thinking,
“Wait… she just put my story into words…”
That’s not an accident.
Girl,
You’re not broken.
You’re just waking up.
You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need permission.
You need the shift.
And girl—
you’ve already started it.
I’m Brynn. This is Dating with ESQ.
And if you’re ready?
It’s your turn now.
